I have come in contact with quite a few women lately that are either pregnant by or slept with a man that they can't stand. They act as though they never had an interest in the man. Many of them can't say one good word about these men. Being a man, I was dumbfounded by these women's situations. This lead me to ask the question; What's the process?
I'm wondering what is the process a woman goes through to decide if she is going to sleep with a man? Some have suggested that women are just like men and that lust and availability are all that's needed. I might be from the old school on this one, but I always believed that men and women were different when it came to this type of thing. Am I wrong? Am I giving women too much credit by thinking that they are more sophisticated when it comes to this type of thing?
In all sincerity, if you have an opinion or thought on this subject please respond. Do so anonymously if you must. I really want to know what the deal is. I know men will do it just for the sake of physical pleasure with little consideration for the woman, the impact this act might have, or even the level of attraction. Can women really be exactly the same? I got questions, I hope you have answers.
WOW...GOOD POINT SO LET ME HELP YOU TO UNDERSTAND WHERE THIS COMES FROM: FROM PART ONE "NOT A GOOD WORD TO SAY" WELL THAT COMES FROM ONE MEANING THAT HAS MANY NAMES: (HURT&PAIN) SOMETIMES A MAN DOES SO MUCH TO A WOMAN THAT THE GOOD HAS BEEN REMOVED AND ERASED. WE HAVE TO DO THAT SO THAT WE CAN LIVE ON AND BE WELL FOR OURSELVES, AND OUR FUTURE, AND SOMETIMES SO THAT WE DONT SPOIL THE NEXT RELATIONSHIP HOPEFUL WITH BAD INGREDIENTS FROM THE LAST DINNER!! NOT TO MENTION IN SOME CASES FOR THE CHILDREN!NOW DONT GET ME WRONG SOME WOMEN DONT HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY BECAUSE: THEY WERE THE CAUSE AND THEY ARE BITTER ABOUT IT AND THEY HAVE THE CASE OF "MY VERSION FIRST AND ONLY" THE DISEASE OF A GUILTY PERSON... BUT 68% OF A WOMANS HURT COMES FROM A MAN...
ReplyDeletePART TWO-(SEXUAL ATTRACTION)NOW I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE FROM THE "OLD SCHOOL" WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUAL ATTRACTION BETWEEN THE SEXES..YES THINGS ARE DONE A BIT DIFFERENT BUT THEN AGAIN NO DIFFERENT THEN THEY USED TO ..ITS JUST MORE OPEN AND FREQUENT..NOW A WOMAN AND A MAN KNOW WHEN THEY ARE GOING TO SLEEP WITH EACH OTHER ..INSTANTLY...YOU JUST FEEL IT ITS NATURAL YOU CAN ALMOST SMELL IT IF YOU PAY ATTENTION..L.O.L.. BUT SOPHISTICATION OF SEX IS THERE BUT EVEN A SOPHISTICATED WOMAN LOVES SEX...NOT LOVE MAKING BUT SEX....SWEAT AND ALL ITS THE EXCITEMENT OF IT ALL..BUT THE DISCREETNESS OF IT MAKES IT SOPHISTICATED....L.O.L
P.S. THERE REALLY IS NO PROCESS THAT A WOMAN GOES THROUGH WHEN SHE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH A MAN..ITS MORE OF A FEELING, A TINGLE, A THOUGHT OF INTIMACY...A INSTANT SNAPSHOT IN THE BRAIN..AND FROM THERE..MEN MUST BE IN TUNE WITH THEIR SENSES AND THEY KNOW AS WELL..BECAUSE WE BOTH HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS WHEN SEXUALLY ATTRACTED..BUT WHAT MOST DONT PAY ATTENTION TO IS THE MUTUAL BENEFACTOR..MEANING...WE MAY GET THE FEELING..BUT CAN YOU READ THE OTHER PERSONS ATTRACTION???
ReplyDeleteI don't read other's well. At least not women. I'm good at scoping out people from afar but not when I'm involved.
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